Tuesday, 20 March 2012

Windows 8 Consumer Preview Review

So I recently decided to install the Consumer Preview of Windows 8, what Microsoft thinks will be the final version. I'm going to be outlining what I've experienced so far. I'm using it right now, and I've only been using it for half an hour, so anything and everything is my first impression, and the first impression always hits the hardest.

I'm going to be honest here - Windows 8 and the merging of Metro and Aero - it's a DISASTER. And not the "Oh no, my dog got into the garbage can!" disaster, we're talking "A nuclear apocalypse just happened" disaster. This user interface is frustrating and unusable to the general public as it is.

The first thing I'll point out here is that users are used to clicking on something in plain view. The start menu on the Metro UI is largely non-existent, at least to the naked eye. Most of what you want is on the side of the screen, only visible if you position your mouse in a certain way. And you most definitely can't move your mouse to click on it - which is another thing that annoyed me. We're all so used to clicking on something directly, and to have that thing disappear less than a second after you try and click on the app in the middle of the tiny preview screen is... frankly, really irritating. Most of the stuff on the side is really sensitive to movement, as well. This is what is supposed to be used for the touch screen tablets. Unfortunately, it's also optomized for the desktop. It's a one-size-fits-all situation, and it doesn't work.

Another thing I have to say is the lack of useful apps. I realize it's only a Consumer Preview, but if this is what they think their finished product will be, I dread what others might think. Maybe it's just me, but when I started out with Windows 8 half an hour ago, it looked like this:

Pretty standard opening screen. (It's not my own desktop, so ignore the name.) Unfortunately, as I am, I'm used to the OLD desktop - and as such, find little use for all these apps.

This is what my UI looks like NOW:
I am not even kidding. I deleted all the apps I didn't need or would ever use - and that's what I came up with. Sure, people listen to music, watch the news, check the weather, but do you really need NEW apps for all that? Are average consumers willing to make the change and transfer everything over just for a fancy, dysfunctional touch screen experience? It doesn't even look that pretty. I knew it would be a disaster as soon as I tried my hand at searching for my tiles. It didn't take me long to figure out, but in this video from Lockergnome, Chris Pirillo's Dad spends the duration of the video searching for it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v4boTbv9_nU&feature=player_embedded


This is NOT what consumers are looking for, and it's certainly NOT what I wanted to get from Microsoft. I was excited to install this when I got home from school. What a disappointment, and if Microsoft thinks it can get away with it... they'd better open their eyes really fast. They can't afford to waste any more.

What's the first thing that jumps to your mind when you think tablet computers? Mostly iPads, right? What about a computer, or a laptop? You think of Windows. But even though the idea for personal and laptop computers is Windows, there are a lot of other options out there, more AFFORDABLE options.

As Joe Pirillo puts it so gracefully at the end of the video linked above: Are they TRYING to drive me to a Mac?

This picture sums up my thoughts quite nicely.



What are YOUR thoughts on the new Metro user interface? Would you use Windows 8? Would you use it on a tablet or a PC, or, heck, both? Why or why not? Give me your opinions and thoughts and feelings in the comments!

Oh, and I don't know about you guys... but I'm uninstalling this piece of junk as soon as I can.

Monday, 12 March 2012

Imaaaagination

Today, I am going to talk about porn. Yes, porn. Avert your eyes, little ones!

Actually, I'm not going to talk about porn, but rather sex, and its effect on relationships. Everyone knows sex doesn't really matter when it comes to love, right? While that may be true, and your relationship might be just as strong without a great, mind-blowing sex life, you can't deny the effects good sex has on your relationship. And if you could, you probably have a really bad sex life. (If that pisses you off... well, the truth is hard to face, huh?)

Either way, I could probably make a drab list of things that get improved, but that's too specific. Sex makes every area of your life better. It's an upward spiral - you do something awesome outside the bedroom, it carries in. And then what happens inside the bedroom, the feeling carries out. The feeling causes something positive to happen, that carries back into the bedroom, and you get the idea. Unless your partner is that bad at sex, it generally makes your life better. It puts you in a better mood. Not like drug highs or anything (although you can experience things in the bedroom similar to drug highs), but just in general a better mood. And that shows. Your skin practically glows your satisfaction. (Here, see? Look at my skin. Look at my skin, bro. No, seriously. Look at my skin.)

So, to give you a better idea of what it does, let's imagine a scenario. I won't go into too much detail for the people who are squeamish about sex (I used to be). Imagine a night of romance, candlelit dinner, rose petals on the bed, the whole deal. You finish dinner, share a kiss - which quickly turns into an outright lip lock - and he leads you into the bedroom (or she leads you, some women can feel dominant). You share a night of passion, the climax is outright euphoria. Then the next morning comes, you grin at each other remembering the night before. Have breakfast, share another kiss, and it's off to work you both go until the evening. (Or potentially just one of you.) You do much better at work today, for some reason, and near the end of the day, your boss calls into his office... and gives you a pay raise.

How could that day get any better? Now, the last part doesn't always happen the day after good sex, and perhaps the scenario is slightly exaggerated for those who have an "alright" sex life, but after a night of good sex, you can imagine some good feeling, can't you? And it follows you everywhere.

You might be wondering now why I'm writing this. I'll leave that to your imagination.


So what about you guys? Do you have an okay sex life? Is it mind-blowing? Or is just... "blah?" Are there reasons you would or would not have sex? Comments encouraged!

Tuesday, 28 February 2012

About Men and Love in General

In my experience with men, there are only three reasons they would ignore you - if they're distracted, if they're angry with you, but especially if something's weighing on their minds.

Why am I blogging about men today instead of writing or something more interesting (although let's be honest, you all love reading about men and what goes through their minds)? Because it's the only thing that's been on my mind all week.

Almost everyone has problems with their relationships, whether you're in love or not. It's humanly impossible for someone not to have problems in a relationship, small or big, whether they show or not. But it's up to you to decide whether they stay or not. Unfortunately, you don't get to decide whether they stay big or small. Small problems pile up and become colossal, and big problems become stories high.


Even though the picture is funny, the statement it makes is the same. If you let the problems get too high, and you break up, this is the result. This is also the result of too many highs in the relationship. They build up, and when a problem hits, you fall straight down into a pit. This is exactly why most relationships don't last. There's no balance. There are either too many problems, or too many highs. Highs aren't necessarily a bad thing, and I'm not saying you should start an argument on purpose for the sake of your relationship (because believe me, that's not a good idea - imagine your partner finding out you wanted to anger him on purpose). But you should definitely consider whether your relationship would be strong enough to stand through the hard times, because there will be hard times.

Too many problems... is there ever such a thing? Hell yeah. Most relationships are repairable if both people are willing to work at it. But a lot of people are pretty selfish, and selfishness only makes people bitter when they don't get what they want. This is probably why there are so many divorces and break ups. Some people just aren't a great fit, most people aren't actually in love in the first place. That might seem like a really arrogant statement to make, and it might make you think I'm one of those people who don't believe love exists (and believe me, the people that don't would probably agree with that statement), but I'm not arrogant or faithless. I have my own boyfriend and yes, I am in love. But there are a lot of people who try to define love, or mistake love for something else. You just have to know, if you're in love.

There are a lot of symptoms of love, and no one symptom is the same. There's always one give away though - you just know, without any doubts.

So that's my two cents, this might have been a really controversial post, but I want to know what you think. Do you believe in love? What's your definition, if any (and I hope you won't try to give it a definition if you don't have one)? Are you in love with someone, or just crushing (big difference!)? Comments welcome!

Monday, 20 February 2012

Taking For Granted

I'm sure we've all had our mornings where we've had to rush out the door, therefore skipping out on breakfast altogether or forcing us to visit a Starbucks on the way to school or work. Have you ever brought your breakfast to work or school, and on your way to warm it up and eat it, dropped it on the floor, therefore making you wait the four to five agonizing hours until lunch?

This actually just happened to me twenty minutes ago. While the food itself wasn't that appetizing anyways, I was hungry and hadn't eaten before I left the house. When you're really hungry, you'll eat almost anything, I've learned.

Which brings me to another point. How far would you go to get food in your belly?

I started thinking about it not long after I dropped my own food and realized I would probably go to some pretty great lengths, especially if I'm starving like some people in third-world countries. It also makes me think that sometimes, we take our food for granted. I know I did before I dropped it. Some people wouldn't even care and eat it anyways, if they're that hungry, but you really do have to consider what's been on that floor.

I probably shouldn't take anything I have for granted, least of all my food. I still think Thanksgiving is just an excuse to eat turkey (why would you be thankful for what you have and then have the Black Friday sale the day afterwards?), but the idea it's based on is no less real or silly than Christmas. I think we should all have a day (preferably not before a sale day) to be thankful for what we have. That's why I also prefer Canadian Thanksgiving. We don't have sales right afterward.

What you think about taking things for granted? Do you? If so, why? Comments welcome.

Tuesday, 14 February 2012

Love Chemical Day

Today is Valentine's Day, a day of chocolates and flowers. You want to know something? I don't really care much about today. I mean, some people might, and hate being reminded of how single they remain, but I'm not the type of girl who dwells on that. Sure, I have a boyfriend, and he wants to do something special, but to be honest, to me, today is just like any other day.

This is my opinion - if you're single, be proud of it! You don't need someone, or another half, to make you happy. Just chill, enjoy the little things in life, live your own life, for yourself. Don't depend on anyone else to make you happy, or else you'll be sorely disappointed.

Which brings me to the point of if you're not single. I'm not, but I don't fully depend on my significant other for happiness. I have a life outside the realtionship, and that's how it always should be. Time spent apart is good for the relationship, no matter what anyone says. Mind you, the time spent apart is probably emphasized in a long distance relationship (like it is for me), but if your relationship is strong enough, you'll endure that time gladly.

Which brings me to another point. Why don't people make the most of the time they have together? Valentine's Day isn't the only day to show your affection. If you truly love each other, you'll show affection to each other everyday, not just on special occasions or god forbid, one day out of the year. I think I'd shoot my boyfriend if he ever tried to pull that stunt (not really).

So today, if you're single, enjoy your life of singledom and don't worry about making anyone else happy. Do whatever you want! Hang out with friends, or if you're a socially awkward person, and that's totally okay, curl up with whatever activity you enjoy doing. Don't let the fact that it's a commercialized holiday for couples hold you back. Be cool like this guy:



And likewise, if you're not single. Don't change anything just because of Valentine's Day. Although, if your relationship is on the rocks because of a lack of intimacy, today might be a good time to try opening up again! There's no time like the present, but don't just work on affection today, or tomorrow, or for a week. It has to be enduring or, (don't mean to be harsh) it probably won't last. If there's affection, it probably will. People have to feel wanted, you know?

So that's my two cents, and if you still feel like sulking, be my guest! (Just don't mess it up for those of us who want to stay positive about our despairingly miserable love lives. And if we rub our relationships in your face, tell/yell at us later, when we're not so totally love chemical stricken. Or else we'll probably hate you for ruining our day.)

Do you like Valentine's Day? Are you a Valentine's junkie/geek? Do you hate it? Comment and tell us why!

Wednesday, 8 February 2012

Say Hello To Your Brain

Imagine this: I am a high school student (seriously, I am), and I've eaten supper. I have a ton of History and English homework to do, and I've determined I won't eat dessert until I finish all of it. So I sit down and get my textbooks ready, and now, with a pencil to the paper, I begin to write.

Then things happen. Suddenly the TV in the living room is ten times louder, the clock is ticking in my ears (if you have that kind of clock), and the people talking outside in the yard seem like they're screaming in my ears. I lose my train of thought. No, my ice cream banana split brownie is waiting for me in the freezer downstairs, I have to get this done. I tune out the noise, and write again.

And this time, the noise is louder than ever. I try for twenty minutes, but only manage to get two sentences down. I throw down my pencil and give up until I can go to a quiet library. I go and eat my dessert almost guiltily. Almost.

Can you relate to that story? I can. In fact, twenty minutes ago I just gave up on History homework until my mother could stop reading her book out loud in my ears. Oddly enough, I've been writing long enough that I can tune out all noise while I'm doing it. I wish I could say the same for everything else I do.

So what can you do when you feel like doing everything else but homework, and you're not that disciplined of a person? Instead of preaching about something I don't know (because I'm, for the most part, a pretty disciplined person), I've asked a bunch of my friends what they do to stay focused.

Listen to music. Sometimes, it helps people tune out the rest of the distracting noises, and really, who doesn't like listening to music? Some people need complete silence, but this is the next best thing, I guess. Try to choose some music without lyrics, so it won't be so distracting.

Earplugs. These things have saved my friends on more than one occasion, especially on stage where music is loud enough to blow your ears off. Earplugs can help block out most, if not all of the noise that's plaguing your brain-jamming session.

Homework partners. I cannot stress this enough, especially if you have really nerdy knowledgeable friends, and especially if they are good at a subject you are clearly not. Just try to find a friend who won't distract you from your work, yes?

Those are only a couple of ways to focus. Honestly, if you don't get that homework done, then it's likely you won't get a very good grade, and then you might fail the class, and not get into a good college, and wind up in some dead end job no one cares about. But hey, let's not stress, just focus on the matter at hand, and try not to end up homeless, yes?

And now that you're scared for your life, I'll go ahead and ask you - what do YOU do to stay in touch with your hippocampus (the storage part of your brain - see, if you didn't know that one you need to pay more attention in science class)? Comments welcome.

Tuesday, 24 January 2012

A Writer's Worst Nightmare

So yesterday morning I overcame two weeks worth of the writer's worst nightmare - writer's block. I don't typically get writer's block, but when I do, it takes a while to go away. I'm one of those writers who always has an idea of what might happen next, so when I don't know what happens next, it messes me up and I am forced to cope. Since I don't get writer's block that often, I don't cope with it that well and I wind up procrastinating because of it. Procrastination is another problem, but it's also another article entirely.

So what can you do to overcome writer's block? If you're like most of us, abandoning your book and letting it pass won't typically work, seeing as you're not actually thinking of what will happen next. Sometimes a miracle happens. But miracles don't happen for most of us, we have to work hard. Here's a list of things you could try to do (sometimes they work for me, believe it or not) to overcome your mid-writing session disaster.

Ask someone else for their opinion. Believe it or not, a friend might have an idea. Even a stranger could have an idea. If you're standing waiting for the cashier to scan your groceries, ask him or her for their opinion on what makes a good scene, or tell them a brief summary of what's happened in that chapter and ask them what they would like to see happen next. I did this once while going to buy some ice cream last summer, and I got a pretty good idea of what might happen next in my book because of it. Sometimes your inspiration is where you least expect it - in line waiting for your delicious reward. (Although, the idea in itself is probably reward enough, at least to me.)

Pull a series of random words out of a hat. I've done this before. I'd write random words, let's say for the sake of this article - fire, book, science, microwave, magic, and flooring - on a few scraps of paper, put them in a hat (or a bag, or if that's not available, just close your eyes and pick one), and choose one or two. Sometimes the word itself might give you an idea, because it forces you to apply that specific thing to your story. I typically use fire first, seeing how destructive and jarring to the story it can be, but if that doesn't work, then I try this. If you pulled out the word 'flooring' for example, you could have your character fall through the floor just as they open the door to a certain place. Or they could find a magical item underneath the floor boards of a vacant tavern that jump starts their adventure. No matter what words you think might be useful, they usually do. So just flip through a dictionary or scroll through your electronic dictionary and choose a few. In fact, you could just look through a dictionary and see if any words stand out, or choose some words and try and apply them to your writing, you don't need to pick them out of a hat.

Write something else. Usually, while you're writing something different, you might get an idea for your other book or story. It's happened to me before. I roleplay sometimes with my boyfriend with newly created or older characters, and I wound up integrating their story into my book. It made the book ten times better, and my writing instructor can't wait to see what happens with them. I can't wait to see where it goes either. You don't necessarily need to roleplay with someone else, you could just write down another idea you've had or come up with some new story ideas. Sometimes, your new story ideas can be integrated into the book or story you're writing now, whether as subplots or as deeper character interaction.

Speaking of character interaction, have you met... your own characters? Sometimes, the problem lies not with the scene or your plot, but with your characters. I focus mainly on character depth. As long as you have a basic plot, character depth will always make the simplest of ideas richer and more entertaining. So if you're stuck, maybe you aren't letting your characters speak for themselves. You should try letting them come alive, so to speak. Anything you write, keep it written, and continue onward. You can fix their interaction later.


And last, but probably should be first, don't let your inner editor get the best of you. Sometimes our worst enemies are ourselves, and if you can't conquer that editor inside you that nitpicks every aspect of your story down to the sentence order and wording, you probably won't be able to finish your book. No one ever said your first draft had to be perfect. In fact, it probably should look like crap. It's a sign you're getting somewhere, and even if it does look like crap, at least you can say you finished it - once.

Now you get to read it and let your inner editor come out, and mark down the editing that needs to be done. Then edit. And once you're done that, you get to read your book again a few days later for more edits. Then read it again after a small break, and mark down more, until you can't find anymore problems. Then let someone else read it, and have them mark down the problems. Continue to edit, but make sure you also try and make it what you want it to be, stay true to your characters, let the plot run its course, and you'll have yourself a winning book.

As long as you have determination, you can write that book. It's hard work to be a writer, sometimes harder than any other job, because you have so much in your way. You have to wait for an editor to respond. You have to go through a year of more editing (yes, more editing. Just because you've sent it in doesn't mean you're done! Your editor will likely have something to say about it), and publishing.

But despite all that, the work is worth it because you've created something no one else can imitate (unless they're plagiarizing you, in which case I suggest a lawyer). You've created your very own book, complete with an exciting plot and deep, human-like characters. If you're reading it, you're probably working on your own book, or looking to start one. That's okay! Use the ideas here and see if they work for you. Not everything works for one person, better methods aren't necessarily better for you.

And really, what's more satisfying than looking at your own book on the shelf of your local bookstore? I don't think there's anything like it. (Even though I'm not published yet, I hope to come to this point soon.)

Saturday, 7 January 2012

Sibling Rivalry

Christmas is over and it's a New Year, and all of us have probably made resolutions by now. I have made no resolutions, mainly because if I want to change something, I start immediately. It makes no sense to wait until the New Year. But one thing I never see on a list of resolutions is 'Attempt to make up with my sister/brother.'

I find resolutions are often selfish things, like losing weight or kicking an addiction and in general making your own life better. The holiday season isn't over, kids. Little Christmas was yesterday, and the spirit of it isn't gone yet. (If you don't know, Little Christmas was the day the wise men visited Jesus. What? You thought they went there in the same day? It takes time to travel.) Instead of making resolutions for yourself, it's better to consider what others might want this year, and act accordingly. Trust me, making other people happy is the best way to make yourself happy.

Consider making up with a member of your family, as an example. I had the misfortune of listening to my boyfriend and his brother fight last night, and it's not the first time I've heard it. I know I'm not the only reason they fight, it would be conceited of me to think that, especially considering everyone thinks his brother is total jerk. But, even considering that he's a jerk, there must be some part of him that's good. Sometimes it's just harder to find. I have made it my own personal mission to find this good in his brother.

I can imagine how my boyfriend thinks when it comes to his brothers. He lives with them, they annoy him. It's been a long time since I've had to live with my sisters, they're adults and they've moved, they have kids now. But in many ways, they still annoy me. It's the way siblings are, they're there to pose a challenge for you. You should be thanking them for making you stronger. And honestly, if you can't live with your siblings for years on end, what makes you think you can live with a significant other? Even boyfriends and girlfriends/wives and hubands will annoy you, maybe not to the point of losing your mind, but they'll still annoy you in some ways, no matter how similar you are to each other. I don't have this thing that my boyfriend has with memes and demotivational posters, but they're still geeky and sometimes they can be really funny, so I try and keep my attention all the time. Like this one.



I do the same with my siblings and family and friends and even my enemies, you never know who might teach you an important lesson, and they deserve attention from you just as much as your best friend does, despite whatever they've done to you, or perhaps even especially because of what they've done. They've made you a stronger person by making things harder for you. And besides, once your parents die, your siblings will be all you have, so I suggest you don't take that famlial bond for granted.

I'm in no way trying to preach or tell any of my readers what to do, this is just my little rant of the week. I'm not big on ranting, but once in a while, it's good to get it out of your system.

So will you make up with your siblings or anyone else you may have taken a falling out with? I know I'm going to try and get my boyfriend and his brother to get along, it's for the best, but what about you guys? Comments are always welcome.