Dungeon & Dragons And How It Can Land You Your Big Crush

Anyone who's a geek has probably heard of Dungeons & Dragons. And when it comes to bringing geeks together, it's probably one of the most effective, interactive things to do. But what about non-geeks? Can it be effective for people who don't find electronics and Star Wars fascinating?

I have many experiences with both geeks and non-geeks, including most of my family. Whereas me and my mum are big Dungeons & Dragons fans, my sisters probably couldn't be bothered to play it. So what if you're interested in someone, and they don't like Dungeons & Dragons?

I recently had a game session of Dungeons & Dragons consisting of my parents and my uncle. My dad isn't as interested in Dungeons & Dragons as the rest of us, so I modify the game to accomodate him. Whatever he might be interested in, I include. This method is effective for anyone who has some sort of interest in fantasy, although there is a textbook for including sci-fi, if that's what your players are interested in.

It pays off in the long run to modify your adventures according to player tastes, because it keeps them coming back for more. If your crush is interested in poetry, create some adventures that includes some cool, clean poetry. If he/she is interested in cars, include vehicles in your game (horse wagons, carriages, etc. Maybe go a bit further and include a new invention - a horseless carriage run by magic!)

So the next time you and your buddies are having a D&D game session, muster up some courage and invite your crush to join. If he/she is hesitant, let them know that you'll make it especially to their tastes. If they still say no, try again another time. Be persistant, but keep in mind that maybe some people have already played it and it's not their thing. That's fine, and just as long as you don't keep trying to get them to join a D&D session, you'll still be somewhat favourable in their eyes (although, if they're making fun of you for your D&D obsession you probably shouldn't have a crush on them in the first place).

I know some of the best weekends I spent and will spend will be spent playing D&D. I'm nearly always DM these days, but I also enjoy being a player. I just prefer to watch players enjoy what I've created for them. It's a part of who I am to make people happy. It'll always be a part of me, and it's why I'm writing this blog. To help geeks like you find your happiness, through the way of geeks. You don't have to change yourself for someone else.

So just kick back, relax, get some dice, paper, and pencils, and prepare to set off on the journey of a lifetime, with your companions and your crush (where else would he/she be except next to you, playing the group's new and only cleric bard?). Just watch out, it'll be a bumpy ride!